Friday, April 11, 2014

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If I were to list out several words that describe my decision-making style they would be: contemplative, calculating, careful, patient and knowledgeable.  The opposite of these would be rash, open, adventurous, impatient and uninformed. 
There have been a few times in my life where I have made decisions based on the words opposite of how I normally make decisions.  Usually, when I make decisions this way, the end result does not turn out well for me.  Due to my past choices, I try not to take too many risks.  I understand that often with high risk, comes high reward; however, with high risk also comes high loss. I am not so adverse to uncertainty that I cannot make risky decisions; however, I like to be thoroughly informed.  An example of this comes from when I was in college.  I desperately wanted a digital camera.  Before I was going to buy one, I learned everything about cameras that I could.  I looked at the benefits of both a DSLR and a compact camera. Not only did I research price differences, but I also looked at the difference in image quality, and wanted to make sure it took HD video.  At this time not a lot of cameras took HD video without paying a significant amount more.  Being a college student, I knew I did not have a lot to spend.  After careful consideration and unwilling to go over my budget of $250, I knew I would not be able to get the camera I wanted.  Rather than saving for the very expensive dream camera , I waited.  I waited almost three years for the camera that had everything I wanted to come down in price.  There are both good and bad to this type of decision making.  The good suggests that I am patient and willing to wait for what I want.  The bad suggests that it took me three years to by a camera and missed a lot of great pictures in that time. 
Because I like to be knowledgeable on my decisions, I often come to the conclusion that there is no right decision.  Whether I am looking at purchases or decisions at work, I often realize that sometimes decisions are just decisions, and I just have to hope that the one I make works out.  If I were to apply some of the opposite terms to my decision making style, I feel that it would open me up to trying new things and enjoy the world a little bit more.  Years ago I made a rash, decision to go on a backpacking trip to Europe for a month.  I went with my cousin and my best friend.  Our plan was to visit Germany, Ireland, Scotland and Amsterdam.  When I landed in Europe, I only had $500 in my bank account and no specific plan.  Before the trip was over, I ran out of money and ended up borrowing from my parents. Not only that, but ended up sleeping in an airport for several nights in a row because I could not afford to stay in a hostel.  Many would suggest that this decision was a poor one (mostly my parents); however, I look back at the trip as being one of the most fun and exciting trips I’ve ever taken.  We never knew where we were going to stay next, or what we were going to see.  Because the trip was successful, and I was able to get back home safely, I felt that the trip was a success.  Although, I did not follow the decision making style I frequently use now, I still feel it was a great time. 

As I’ve grown older, my decision making styles have adapted and changed.  I make less risky decisions now that I have a wife and child.  I care more about what I do and how I do it.  Decisions I make are based on what will provide them with the life they deserve.  I feel I can change some of my decision making style a little to see things from a different perspective and still be able to make good knowledgeable decisions.   

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